a long journey with a baby step

Baby steps  to stayed at home mom/ worked at home mom

       there are a lot of things i can do as a sahm/wahm , be it to kill the boredom or to find pocket money. here are my list:

1.homeschooling my children
2. writing books /activities book for preschoolers and publish it on  the blog
3.making dresses/bootiesand sell it
4.chili planting
5.making homemade chili pickles and sell it
6. read books
7. writing blog about creative writing for children and its materials
8. baking cakes/cookies/cooking
9. private tutoring
10. vegetables planting/fruit planting
11. al-quran recitation/hafadzan qur an
12.solat -solat sunat dan belajar perkara asas fardu ain
13. getting to know (reading or observing) kindergarten

still i am not even close to become such a great or talented at any of those points. still it worth trying.

survival skill or saving skill

survival skill with saving skill

      After a long hiatus, i started to save every little penny and found few ways of finding more money by selling home care stuff , just to apply for a super long unpaid leave. while i saving up, i also applied for a transfer to get closer to my husband. i did apply for a tertiary degree too. surprisingly i was accepted and got a transfer too.( i mean after a long drama.....and bad melody). but on the contrary, my backache was not getting closer to remedial stage so i had to forgo the chance to enter postgraduate. As i was giving birth to my second child i just decided that i had to do what i got to do ! which to be a stayed at home mom for my babies as i can't stand to sacrifice the time of them growing up alone , i can't stand sending them off to nursery at  very early in the morning and pick them up quite late, i can't stand knowing that they were being bullied by babysitter, i can't stand looking at my self crying silently at night knowing that i chose a job over them. i am a bad mom and a bad teacher. what a life...i wanted a change. so i just took a long unpaid leave.

where should we start? OTTO KA JI...

hello blogwalkers,

i ' m best known as samsungmom, here is my humble experience about how i come about being a STAY AT HOME MOM/WORK FROM HOME MOM.
i always want to be a stay at home mom or work from home mom.but i always stranded around my JOB and ITS NEEDY DEMAND. i just start of this year and truly not an easy task for me. it does take a toll on me. There are a lot in my mind when things go wrong here and there. i bet some of WFHM/SAHM does face it too.i am a total newbie to this area of expertise.therefore, I'd like to share my personal experience,obstacles,& turbulence of going through it.

Work from home mom /Stay at home mom

i am a teacher in the northern Malaysia and i am still am until today. i did receive good salary and other benefits. Somehow, in the beginning, i did enjoy the job but
after 6 years of servicing i was pressured by many demand from the job. i had to serve 7 days per week , from very early in morning and sometimes till nite. i had to leave my kid to nursery for more than 8 hours and because of that she always fell sick and was infected by many dangerous diseases, which had her hospitalized for every month. my heart sunk deeper every time.i was living alone with my kid for over 3 years as my husband was working in the west region of Malaysia. it is tough no one can understand our situation of being away like that and only got to see each other once a month (2 days for a month!). the stress was piling up until i was diagnose for having a severe backbone sickness. i was kill silently by my job and i just stranded in between curing myself or saving the job (as money was really needed at every corner of my choice). so i learn to endure it for at least few years...i don't know...i don't know...what should i do...OTTO KA JI?(what should i do?).......